I am the type of person who cares so much about other people. Their feelings. Their thoughts. Their overall happiness. Very self sacrificing. It is frustrating at times because most people are generally not that way. I don't regret being the type of person that I am. I believe there should be more people like me. But I don't condemn those who are not. If I can share my stories for potential enlightenment I will. I guess the parent in me... like any parent... shares the mistakes they have made in an effort to prevent someone else from making the same mistakes. Experiencing unnecessary heartache. Life is really not as complicated as we make it. Love is not as complicated as we make it. Love is so freaking BEAUTIFUL! I mean really BEAUTIFUL! To share with someone. To have fun together. To enjoy each other. To care about someone. People often confuse love with sex. Don't get me wrong. Sex is PHENOMENAL! But it is not love. Sex is our physical animalistic raw behavior. Love is mental. Emotional. It is at a higher frequency than sex. Loving someone is to love them entirely. All that's good. All that's bad. All that's perfect. All that's imperfect. Sex is a lot more absolute. It is more about attraction Primarily physical. Rarely do you want to have sex with a beautiful mind. Grant it that does happen. Not as much as physical attraction. But I digress. It shouldn't be that difficult. Or uncomfortable. Or scary. Or hurtful. Or neglectful. Or discriminatory. But we are all humans and we fight to protect ourselves. Well... we fight or we just move on. Fight or flight. As highly evolved as we are as humans we still rely on our basic animalistic behaviors. Sex. Fight. Flight. So where does love fit? Do we genuinely know? Do we genuinely know how to really love? Do we really know what love is? I don't know. That's the conundrum. Guess that is the purpose of life. To grow. To evolve. To elevate. It is beautiful though.
Be Strong. Stay Strong. Live Strong. Love Strong. Asuecion